Showing posts with label Virginia Touby Coan. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 12, 2022

Virginia Touby Coan

Virginia on her 98th birthday, August 28, 2021

Virginia Touby Coan

1923 - 2021
 
Our mother, Virginia Coan, left this life gently in her sleep on Friday evening, December 31.  We could not have planned a greater celebration of the new year than the homecoming she received that night.  At the age of 98, she had faced many challenges as her vision faded and age sapped her strength.  In spite of her physical restrictions, she persevered gracefully and cheerfully, always looking forward to times with friends and family.
 
She was born the fourth daughter of five to Emmett and Elsie Touby.  After graduating from Howard High School, she pursued her love of music at Ball State Teachers College.  Throughout her teaching career she gave countless students in the community an appreciation for beautiful music.  Virginia dedicated her life to her family, friends, and church, always encouraging everyone with gentle counsel, positive teaching, generous spirit and overflowing love.  The one attribute that characterized her life was stewardship... of the land, her resources, her talents, and her time.  Her appreciation for all things beautiful was evident in her home and in her life.
 
She was preceded in death by her husband of sixty years, Arthur J. Coan; sisters, Louise Coan, Dorothy Kearney, Frances Touby, and Joan Coburn; and youngest daughter, Elizabeth Campbell.  Her surviving children are: J. David Coan (Mary) of Greentown, IN; Jane Ellefson (Bill) of Lindenhurst, IL; and Nancy Snapp (Mark) of Poland, IN; six grandchildren: Jason Coan (Shay), Ken Ellefson, Stephanie Snapp Truax (Jake), Sarah Campbell Bennett (Paul), David Snapp (Brooke), and Emily Campbell Mahoney (Daniel); twelve great-grandchildren; dear nieces and nephews.
 
A private funeral service for the family was held on Saturday, January 8, at Hasler-Stout funeral home, Greentown, IN, officiated by Rev. Charles Armstrong.  A burial service followed at Greenlawn Cemetery, Greentown, IN. 
 
An open invitation for all family and friends to celebrate Virginia's life will be held at Northview Christian Church, 2059 N 100 E, Kokomo, IN, on Saturday, May 7, 2022 with a service beginning at 11:00 am.  Those wishing to pay their respects may do so from 10:00 until the time of service.
 
Music was our mother's language and her soul's purest expression; it flowed from her heart to the piano keyboard.  To honor Virginia's love of music and her legacy of music education, gifts may be given in her memory to the Whorwell Musicianship Fund, administered by Community Foundation of Howard County, 215 W. Sycamore, Kokomo, IN. (Check memo: Whorwell Fund, or online at www.cfhoward.org).
 
Dave Coan, Jane Coan Ellefson, Nancy Coan Snapp
 

LINK for video in memory of VIRGINIA TOUBY COAN

LINK for funeral video for VIRGINIA TOUBY COAN  

LINK for Virginia's 90th Birthday Book

LINK for Virginia's Childhood - Narrated Video

LINK for Celebration of Life video for Virginia Touby Coan

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Lament



This past October the Touby Cousins trekked to McKenzie Bridge, Oregon for our second annual reunion.  My mother had so hoped to be able to make the journey, but as time drew near she realized she was just not able.  She asked that we read this poem she had written (neither Nancy nor I thought we could do it, so Charlotte volunteered).  It was a sobering moment.

Lament

I've waited too long
To travel Northwest -
California, Washington and Oregon.
Friends invited me there,
I wish I had gone -
Now I've waited too long.

I've waited too long
To visit Vermont
in the beautiful fall of the year.
It's such a lovely season,
What was my reason?
Now I've waited too long.

I waited too long
to read the great books -
the History, the Classics,
the Bible I planned.
Others, too, through the years that have spanned,
Sadly, I've waited too long.

I've waited too long
To finish the cross-stitch
or the quilt top from fabric I've saved.
I look back o'er the years
and recall with some tears
Those little girl dresses I made.

I've waited too long
To learn to play jazz
at the piano I love so much.
My fingers, no longer nimble,
My hands seem to tremble,
I've simply lost my touch.

I've waited too long
Now that I have the time,
I can no longer see well enough.
To finish these tasks,
the time has passed.
Sadly, I've waited too long.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Auntie Marianna

Marianna Riddick was one of my mother's best friends.  They met at college and remained close all through the years.  We kids always called her Auntie Marianna.  She was the best entertainer!  She played the piano and sang with us.  She held all our kittens.  She wrote and illustrated voluminous letters. Mother said of Marianna just today, "Marianna was the most truly genuine person I have ever known."

Marianna Riddick, July 2010

Marianna passed away on April 5 at the age of 90.
Jan. 17, 1922 - Apr. 5, 2012


LAGRANGE - Marianna Riddick, age 90, died on Thursday, April 5, 2012 at Parkview LaGrange Hospital in LaGrange, IN. Marianna was born on January 17, 1922 in Plymouth, Indiana, the only child of Paul Merrill and Lois Lucille (Dilley) Riddick. The family moved to LaGrange in 1928 when Mr. Riddick assumed ownership and editorship of the LaGrange Standard and News. Marianna graduated from LaGrange High School in 1939. She attended Albion College before receiving an undergraduate music degree from Ball State and a master's degree from Northwestern University.  She studied foreign language while studying and performing opera at LaScala Opera in Milan, Italy. In 1963, she was awarded the outstanding music alumnus of the year from Ball State University. The greater number of her teaching years were spent as a music teacher and administrator in the South Bend Community School Corporation, where she wrote and produced a series of music lessons that were broadcast on the school's Educational Radio station, WETL. She was an active member of several musical and educational organizations including Tri-Kappa Sorority and Delta Kappa Gamma, a teacher's honorary organization. She was member of the First United Methodist Church in South Bend, IN. Upon retirement in 1981, Marianna returned to her parents' home in LaGrange. She was active in Coterie, the LaGrange Cultural Arts Council, the LaGrange County Retired Teachers Association and a member of the First United Methodist Church in LaGrange, IN. Marianna has no immediate family survivors.
Published in South Bend Tribune on April 7, 2012



While studying voice in Italy, Marianna lived with Adriano Bogoni and his wife Maria Pia near Milan.  Adriano was an artist and did this portrait of Marianna.  Below are a self-portrait and a portrait of Maria.






Virginia and Marianna at the Riddick home.
Marianna and Virginia at the Touby home. 







Virginia and Marianna in July, 2006
Virginia and Marianna with Stephanie, Sarah and Emily

Marianna and Jane
Marianna and Nancy
Marianna and Virginia - July 2010














Friday, January 14, 2011

Early Homes of Howard Township

A few years ago my mother wrote short narratives for many historic homes in Howard Township.  One summer day she and I drove to each of these homes and took photos, and by Christmas all the information was compiled and bound into a nice booklet.  This format will bring her work to a wider audience.  It was a fun collaboration...we were all involved.  My son, Ken, was technical advisor at every turn!  Nancy edited.  I compiled and did layout.  Mother was proud of all of us, and we of her!  Great memories.  Her account begins with this preface:

I have always loved old houses, and so the opportunity to learn a bit of the history of those early Howard Township homes represented here has been truly enjoyable.  The sketches of course are very brief, having been compiled from information gathered from former and current owners, and from the 1877 Howard County Atlas and later Plat Books.  The original owner and date of each home is designated where that information was available.  The current owners are identified in the accounts that follow.

I am grateful to all who shared information.  The conversations with friends and neighbors who added their memories have served to bring the past back to life.  There are so many cherished memories of my own childhood home - the Touby home. 

Virginia Touby Coan
December 2000

Dorothy's wedding 1942, west porch, Touby home

Early Homes of Howard Township

A measure of prosperity and the necessity for more living space for growing families created something of a building boom as landowners began to replace their original log cabins with larger, more comfortable dwellings.  Brick making industries in the area made this building material available, along with the abundance of native hardwoods.

Several of these sturdy historic homes are located in Howard Township and are lovingly cared for by their present owners.  Located on East Sycamore Road (100 North), as it winds its way along the Kokomo Reservoir where the Wildcat Creek once meandered along its course, are some of the finest old homes in Howard County.

Others were built along the Touby Pike, an early "corduroy road" which served as a route into Kokomo for the residents in the northern section of the township.  A few early homes remain near the Cassville area where the earliest known settlers in the township had located and lived among the Miami in their village.

There are of course other historic homes in the area.  Many turn-of-the-century farm homes were built, replacing original log structures.  Several of these would have historic interest, although many have been extensively remodeled and updated to make them more functional for the owners' lifestyles.  All homes speak of their own time and place in the history and development of the area.

David S. Farley
1862

Built of brick made on the farm, the 1862 home of David S. Farley was the first brick house in the township.  Located on Sycamore Road at 3634 East, it was at one time the residence of the Charles Hunter family and later the Clarence Obermeyer family.  In 1979, Keith and Judy Lausch bought the home.  Although no longer living there, the Lausches are the current owners.  There have been several modifications made throughout the years.

James Miller
circa 1862

The James Miller house, thought to have been built about 1862, is located at 4758 East, 100 North.  It is believed that Mr. Miller, farmer and tile factory proprietor, made the bricks for several of the large brick homes in this area.  Now owned and carefully maintained by the Gordon Dell family, this lovely old home stands like a sentinel among others as much as 100 years younger.  Its original shutters and the scrolled canopy above the entrance are still in place.  The surrounding walkway includes many Kokomo bricks.  Beautiful Victorian furnishings throughout the house, along with many family antiques, have made the Dells' home a showcase of the charm of earlier times.

George Miller
1882

Located at 1622 North 400 East is what was, for many years, known as the George Miller home.  The house is believed to have been built by Mr. Miller's father, Joe Miller, who had dropped the first part of the family name, Brunnenmiller, and was known in the community as "Brunno" Miller.  This once sturdy house was built in 1882, the date recorded in the design on the slate roof.  On the opposite side of the roof are the initials "BM."  A single "M" is on the front roof.  Current owners of the house and land are Tom Maher and John E. Maher II.

David Smith

Across from the entrance to Wildcat Creek Reservoir Park, on what was once known as the "Float Section," is the original home of David Smith.  It was at this location that the Vermont Covered Bridge spanned the Wildcat Creek.  The 1877 Howard County Atlas records the first crop of corn in the township was grown on this farm by Jacob Good about 1842.  For many years the farm and home of the Ross Smith family, the house is now owned by John Christenson.  The portico and shutters have been removed from the square brick structure.  Otherwise, it looks essentially as it did many years ago.

Jacob Brunk
circa 1860

The original Jacob Brunk home, later acquired by the James Miller family, and for many years known as the Miller home, is located at 5130 East, 100 North.  According to the 1877 Howard County Atlas, the village of Vermont was originally laid out on this farm.  The home is now owned by the Bob Mickelsons, who have restored it with true sensitivity.  The date is uncertain, but it was probably built in the 1860s.  The spacious L-shaped porch was added sometime after the house was built.  Recent modernization includes an attached garage at the rear of the house.  The grounds are beautifully landscaped.

Passers-by cannot help but notice the Mail Pouch Tobacco advertising sign authentically copied on the barn, certainly reminiscent of by-gone days.

Christopher Collins Willits
1865

The Willits-Kurtz home at 5859 East, 100 North was built in 1865 for the C. C. Willits family.  The farmland, part of which was deeded to Chief Richardville of the Miami Indians, was purchased in 1853.  Designated a "Hoosier Homestead" by the State of Indiana, it has been kept in the family for well over 140 years.  The large, square frame dwelling, with back extension, features an interesting two-door front entrance.  There is no central hall.  The original hall and open stairway were eliminated when the house was remodeled in about 1920.  Each door opens into separate rooms at the front of the house.  Shirley Drew and Don Kurtz, children of Lester T. Kurtz, and great-grandchildren of C. C. Willits, are the current owners of the home and the farmland situated on the south side of the road.  Michael Jackson, great-great-grandson of C. C. Willits, owns the farmland lying on the north side of the road.  There are many fond memories of our family visits in this home with my Aunt Allie and Uncle Harley Kurtz, and our cousins Agnes, Jeanette, and Lester.

D. Markland
1880

The Markland home, built in 1880, is located on road 200 North at 5532 East.  The square, brick structure features a back extension with side door entrance.  The front door opens directly into the living room.  The exterior of the house is essentially unchanged from its original appearance, except for a sun room which was recently added on the east side.  The home and grounds have been beautifully cared for by Joan and Ned Hullinger, who purchased the farm from the Marklands in 1970, after having lived there and farmed the ground since 1943.

James R. Caldwell


Early settlers in the northern sections of Howard Township soon recognized the need for a main route into Kokomo.  Thus, they banded together in the construction of what became known as the Touby Pike, taking its name from pioneer Peter Touby, who was instrumental in its building.  Its many twists and turns reflected the necessity to follow the higher ground in what was in those days a very swampy area.  One of the outstanding homes along this route was that of James R. Caldwell, located at 3246 North Touby Pike.  Constructed of double and triple-thick red brick walls, it certainly speaks of strength and stability.  In 1912, T. W. Underwood purchased the farm and made several changes and additions to the house before his family moved there in about 1915.  Other modernizations followed through the years.  The home is now owned by the Underwoods' grandson, Ronald Schafer.  Recent interior decorating lends a warm, Victorian charm to the home.

Jesse C. Yager

As the Touby Pike reaches 400 North, it turns more directly eastward.  At 250 East, the site of the old flowing well, the Yager-Smith family home can be seen back the lane.  Through family succession, the farm became the home of Bertha (Yager) and Clarence C. Smith and was commonly known as the Smith farm.  Many fond memories are recalled: ice skating on the frozen creek, the summer threshing operation with Mr. Smith's big steam engine, family reunions, and picnics by the well.

The date of the house is uncertain.  A colonial-style front entry with central hall leads to rooms on either side.  The curving stairway to the second floor has been beautifully restored by the current owner, Barry Kratzer, descendant of early Howard Township pioneer, Lewis Kratzer.  Work is continuing on the restoration and modernization of this historic home.

Lawrence M. Yager
circa 1895

Continuing on road 400 North to 2817 East is the lane leading to the home built for Jesse C. Yager's son, Lawrence M. Yager, and his wife Leora Touby Yager.  The date of the house is thought to be about 1895.  The style and plan are so similar to that of the Albert C. Touby house, that is believed to have been built by the same carpenter.  Albert C. Touby and Leora Touby Yager were brother and sister.

There is evidence of the Eastlake influence in the craftsmanship.  The interior woodwork of open grain oak features the carved wheat and bull's eye blocks used trim above the doors and windows.  The porch posts and arched brackets are of a style used in both the Touby and Yager homes as well as others of the period.  Uncle Lawrence and Aunt Leora and their daughter, Mary Belle, were the hosts of many family gatherings in their home.

There have been some minor changes, but essentially the house appears as it originally did more than 100 years ago.  It is now the home of Gary and Kay Yager, both descendants of Jesse C. Yager.

Albert C. Touby
1898

North of the Touby Pike on Road 500 North at 2315 East stands the large frame dweling built by my grandfather, Albert C. Touby, son of Peter and Jane C. Touby.  Built in 1898 of lumber from the farm, it is finished with beautiful golden oak interior woodwork.  An interesting feature of the house was the acetylene gas lighting system which was piped into fittings in the lower floor rooms, quite a convenience for the time.

Upon the retirement of my grandparents, Kate and Albert Touby, my parents, Emmett and Elsie, moved into the big farm house.  Here they raised their family and lovingly cared for the Touby Homestead for many years.  In 1976 the farm was sold to the Stites family and is now the residence of Ronald and Mary Stites.  Some modifications were made, however it still retains a quiet dignity.

The Touby Homestead

This was my home.  It was here I was born and grew to young womanhood with my four sisters Louise, Dorothy, Frances, and Joan.  My father often told of the building of the house and of moving from the log cabin where he was born into their new home when he was ten years old.  Here he grew to manhood, working with his father on the farm.  With the retirement of my grandparents, Kate and Albert Touby, my mother and father moved from the smaller tenant house, which had been built for them at the time of their marriage, into the "big house."  The farm became known as the "Touby Homestead" and their loving care was evident in the attention to the land and the beautifying of the home.  The words of an old song come back to me...How dear to my heart are the scenes of my childhood...as I think about the woods where we gathered wildflowers, the large pasture where horses and cattle grazed, our pet lambs, the hickory tree beside the creek, Mother's beautiful flowers, carrying water to my father as he worked in the fields, and singing together as we rested on the porch on summer evenings.  These memories will always remain dear to my heart.  The lessons of sharing and caring, for responsibility and good citizenship were learned here with my family.

When each of my sisters and I were married, we chose to have weddings in our home.  And even as we were "settling in" and establishing our own families, this home continued to be the center of celebrations for as long as our parents were able to host the gatherings.  Wonderful Sunday dinners with family and friends, birthdays, Thanksgiving, and Christmas were all joyful occasions.  We can never go back, but we shall never forget the love that enveloped us in our home.


 Joe Ross
circa 1880

At 300 East, 400 North, the Touby Pike straightens its course past the Kokomo Airport.  Across the road and back the lane on the north is the home once belonging to Joe Ross.  The 1877 Atlas records this tract of land as a part of the farm of G. W. Hooker.  The large brick home may have been built during the time of his ownership, perhaps circa 1880.  The ownership of the farm has changed several times, having for a time been held by Kokomo industrialist Max Gerber, who made some changes and additions to the house.  It is now the residence of the David Schafer family.  Recent restoration of the arched window panes in the second story have added beauty to the facade.

 Edward J. Troyer
circa 1865

Continuing east to Road 450 and turning north onto what is often called the Strawtown Pike, the road borders farms still kept in the families of early pioneers Troyer, Grau, and Metz.  The Edward J. Troyer house at 4585 North is believed to be nearly 130 years old.  It was built by Aaron Sipe, who purchased the land in 1865.  Edward Troyer, Jr. remembered his father telling that the house was moved from back in the field to its present location on the west side of the road after the farm was acquired from the Sipe family in 1905.  A kitchen extension and porches were added at that time.  A huge sycamore tree has grown from what was then a mere sprout and still stands in front of the house.  Jeff and Joe Troyer, great-grandsons of Edward J. Troyer, Sr., now reside in this family home.

Henry Metz
1894

Located at 4141 East on road 500 North is the Henry Metz home.  The house was built in 1894, replacing a log cabin.  For many years the home of the family of Edwin Schafer, son of Henry and Katie (Metz) Schafer, it is now owned by Orval and Sharon Gingerich.  (Sharon was formerly married to Harold Schafer.)  Original windows have been replaced and other changes made to the century-old home.

C. C. Yoder
circa 1880

Just beyond 500 North on 450 East is the stately brick Yoder-Helmuth home.  Acquired by Joseph J. Helmuth in 1906, it has been beautifully maintained through the years.  The house was built in 1880 with many details revealing the finest workmanship of the period.  Examples of Victorian architecture are the ornate exterior cornices above all windows and doors, the scrolled brackets at the roof line, the 9 1/2 foot ceilings with transoms in every room, and the beautiful interior woodwork.

Farmed by J. J. Helmuth's son, Dewey, for many years, it is now the home of Dewey and Mildred Helmuth's daughter, Mary Lou, and her husband, Ronald Rich. 

About the Author

Virginia Touby Coan was born at the Touby home on August 28, 1923.  After graduating from Howard Township High School in 1941, she went on to Ball State Teachers College, majoring in music education.  She married Arthur J. Coan on June 22, 1946.  In February of 1947 they settled on the Locke farm where Virginia's grandparents, George L. Locke and Settie Graf Locke, had begun their lives together many years before.  The farm was named Liberty Grove because of its lush grove of maples and oaks on 160 acres in Liberty Township.  Virginia taught music at Greentown High School, then for many years at Howard Township School, as well as private piano lessons.  Arthur farmed both the Touby and Locke farms.  In 1965, he and Virginia purchased Liberty Grove Farm, which in 1989 was designated a Hoosier Homestead Farm, having been in the family for over 100 years.  Arthur and Virginia are members of Northview Christian Church.  They both take great pleasure in maintaining the family home and grounds.

Arthur and Virginia Coan, Liberty Grove Farm, Locke home